Notes from Jan

Laughter during Lent

February 22, 2021

Is it OK to laugh during Lent? I suppose that’s a little like the Pharisees asking Jesus, “Is it lawful to heal on the Sabbath?” But back to Lent. This a time to reflect, repent and take a closer look at what we’re about and who this Jesus is? And for many, it’s a choice to fast, give up something we really enjoy eating or doing. Which, for most of us, is no laughing matter.

Well, yesterday, Bryan Wilkerson, pastor of Grace Chapel, defined fasting as “giving up something good to experience something better.” His text took us to the story when Satan tempted Jesus to “make bread from a stone.” After having fasted for 40 days, Jesus was hungry but still didn’t bite. He said to Satan,” No! The scriptures say, People need more than bread for their life.”(Luke 4:4,NLT)

So I wonder, what’s my “more than bread“?

Which, if I’m honest, I’ve been into bread a bit much during this pandemic. The three Grand girls were with me this weekend and they made pizza. I dug into it like I’d been on a 40 day fast. Sometimes I have to remind myself that carb is a four letter word. Alas, bread in various forms comforted and softened my edges during this pandemic in predictable ways.

Well, for many, 2020 felt like an unholy extension of Lent. Which got me thinking, maybe I need to fast from attitudes, not just appetites. How does my thinking about the pandemic, politics, people who differ from me clog sacred space meant for hope and laughter? There’s something healing about a good laugh, especially at my expense. It reminds me I’m not god so stop trying to control what’s uncontrollable or God.

Which may be why I needed my brother Dan’s email with some thoughts from the internet on aging and ways some of us coped during this past year. Here’s a sampling:

“My goal for 2020 was to lose 10 pounds. I only have 14 to go.”

“A recent study has found women who carry a little extra weight live longer than men who mention it.”

“Ate salad for dinner. Mostly croutons and tomatoes. Really just one big round crouton covered with tomato sauce and cheese. FINE, it was a pizza!”

“I see people, about my age mountain climbing; I feel good getting my leg through my underwear without losing my balance.”

So, why laugh during times like these? Maybe it’s a little like singing in the dark. Sometimes, it helps me to believe before I see. Laughter is the earthy sound of joy. It reminds me that because of the work and words of Jesus, I can live care-free in a care-full world. And whatever good I offer to Jesus leaves room for something better. Like something I never thought to ask for to satisfy hungers I never knew I had. And it doesn’t take much imagination to know sometimes our “more than bread” is simply a good laugh.

Even during Lent.

This story has been viewed 129 times

0 Be the first to HEART this story


  • Reply Barbara Chapman February 23, 2021 at 6:42 am

    “A MERRY HEART DOETH GOOD LIKE A MEDICINE”. Thanks for always lifting our spirits, Jan

  • Reply Dale February 23, 2021 at 11:16 am

    Laughter means we are engaged and listening. And, laughter at one’s self means we have a healthy perspective on life. My wife learned this when, on a past Ash Wednesday, she mentioned to a friend she had dirt on her face!

    Blessings, Dale

  • Reply Marty Lefever February 23, 2021 at 3:42 pm

    That must have been Dale’s first wife! LOL!! Thanks for the reminder, sweet friend! I can hear your laugh in my heart! ❤️

  • Reply Carolyn Sylvester February 24, 2021 at 11:16 am

    You did make me laugh. Thank you VERY much. They all were great (Dan’s sayings) – couldn’t pick out the “best” one….

  • Reply patrick mccary February 25, 2021 at 6:28 pm

    What an uplifting blog! CS Lewis agrees with you. He says, ” The business of heaven is joy.” What a wonderful message. Thanks Jan!

  • Reply Wendy February 28, 2021 at 3:23 pm

    Oh my goodness – this is just what the “doctor ordered”! Hahaha – and I just smile thinking of your delightful laughter too Jan 🙂 I just read again and highlighted this morning John 17:13 where Jesus said “I am coming to you now, but I say these things while I am still in the world, so that they may have the FULL MEASURE OF MY JOY WITHIN THEM”. Such a gift to laugh, and to have Jesus JOY even when things are hard. These words from Dan helped a lot. Haha <3

    • Reply Jan Carlberg February 28, 2021 at 9:09 pm

      JOY…nothing quite like it. It’s Grace laughing within.

      • Reply wendy March 1, 2021 at 9:31 am

        Grace laughing within – that’s beautiful! <3

    Share Your Thoughts

    WP2Social Auto Publish Powered By :