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Almost Perfect Pancakes for Almost Perfect People

Nothing like a blizzard to hit the pause button on life as usual. Because the power stayed on, it's been a blessed break. My nest stayed warm and cozy. So I made Norwegian pancakes for one. That was a first. It was always for two or more, which is what I prefer. Share the joy.

Speaking of JOY, the storm brought me back to snow days, when Heather and Chad were young and school was cancelled due to snow. They jumped for joy. And I made Norwegian pancakes to celebrate. But this time, I made them for me, with memories for company. Good memories are worth celebrating, too.

So, back to breakfast. I added a dash of cardamom to my coffee, as well as to the pancake batter. Mama never did that. But then, she never filled them with fresh blueberries, either. However, don't add the berries to the batter. Makes them squishy, when cooked. So, here's a hint for almost perfect pancakes. After removing the pancake from the pan, spread a little butter, then fresh blueberries. I bought mine Saturday at Shaw's, before the storm hit. The blueberries came from Chile. Bold berries! Now, add some warm maple syrup. Then, roll it up. For the finishing touch, sprinkle a little cardamom infused sugar over the top. Next, pray. Trust me, you'll be thankful. Dig in!

Well, here's the thing, pancakes, like people are never exactly alike. Pancake batter differs, too. Some add more eggs, others more milk and less flour. If your goal is perfection and uniformity, don't bother. True for people, too. Expect surprises. Good ones.

And that's a healthy way to live. DOWN with dread. UP with hope. Well, speaking of hope...last Sunday was the Annual Meeting at church. Hope showed up in reports, a shared meal, hugs, Father Dean Borgman's prayer, Mother Ali's words, (our Bridge Priest), Tom Skinner's thoughtful challenge, respectful listening, but especially in tender hearts. Some of us have lost trust in each other. Others are angry.

But Lent is a perfect time for imperfect people, like me, to took in the mirror, instead of at everyone else. And to trust Jesus to help me uncover what needs healing, forgiving and reconciling. (Thanks, Liesl, for the Lenten readings.) We are unique creations of God. And unique does not mean uniform. So we can expect to live with people who differ from and with us. But to do so with grace, love and kindness. Community can be challenging.

But, like pancakes for one, life's better when shared. I miss the Gray family but trust God to care for them and for us. Mending is God's work, through our hands, plus willing and teachable hearts. We're called to be sacred stitchers. Jesus knows we're broken in both seen and unseen ways.

So back to the meeting. Each family unit received a large wooded spoon, the stirring part shaped like a heart. And along with it, this verse from Hebrews 10:24: "Let us stir up one another to love and good works." It's easy to stir up trouble, but it takes courage, faith and the power of the Holy Spirit to stir up love and to produce good works.

And speaking of good works, Beth, one of my good neighbors, hauled out my trash and recycle bins today, then put the empties back in the garage. I told her, she deserves the gold medal in the good neighbor olympics. Beth also cleared off my car twice this week. So, see why I'm so grateful on this wintry day? While I write about good works, my neighbor, bundled up like an Inuit, does good works. Good neighbors infuse our lives with kindness and joy. Gratitude is the most natural response.

Well, there's a lot to keep us hunkered down. And I'm not just talking about the weather. The State of the Union is not as healthy as projected last night. But the gold medal USA Men's Hockey Team brought most together to cheer. The USA Women's Hockey Team also won gold, but not present, for stated and unstated reasons, I'm sure. But one of the gifts of the Olympics is watching healthy competition and growing friendships between countries. It's a time to celebrate patriotism, not flaunt nationalism.

But, enough about politics. There's a lot more going on in our world, our families and in ourselves. Maybe you're feeling like the cartoon I shared at church last Sunday. One guy says,"I woke up feeling like a million bucks. How about you?" The other answered, "I feel more like insufficient funds."

Me, too, some days. But then I pray, sing or get to work on something that needs doing. Or I remember God has more than enough sufficiency to handle my insufficiencies. Like II Corinthians 12:9 states, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." So since Sunday, I've been singing, "Turn your eyes upon Jesus" and "Amazing Grace." And before I know it, hope shows up, sprinkled with joy. It's amazing what just a hint of joy can do. Like just a hint of cardamom in my coffee or Norwegian pancakes...a taste of heaven on earth.

So may you be blessed this day with hints of hope and joy, along with a nudge to "stir up love and good works." You might also try a hint of cardamom in your tea or coffee. Can't hurt. Could help you feel like more than a million bucks. More like $9,542,180.00 in Norwegian krone.

We're rich!!

Rich in all that matters most.

Like ways a little blog post keeps me connected heart to heart with family, friends and those who just stop by for a hint of hope.

Or cardamom.

10 Comments

Niffy

Snow days or sleepovers - Lucky me to be a recipient of those very special pancakes and the wonderful family I shared them with!! One of a million special memories with you and your family!

Jan Carlberg

Lucky us to have you and the Williamson family as our neighbors on Martel Road. I always love hearing from you, dear Niffy. Never would've thought you'd end up in North Carolina near so many of the Jensen part of my family. You're always welcome to come see me and I'll make Norwegian pancakes for you!!

Maggie Rowe

Jan, this is a very good day for me here, because I’m back to getting your posts in my inbox again! Apparently the third or the fourth or the 10th try was the charm, because something shook loose in cyberspace and we are connected again. I could almost taste those warm Norwegian pancakes as I read your words. Have I told you I’ll be celebrating my next birthday back in Norway this year? Just like a real native and not a washashore who is going back for a visit. Makes me happy to be able to visit with you here today.

Jan Carlberg

So grateful you're back in the loop. I need all the Norwegians I can get on my side of issues. How wonderful you get to celebrate your birthday in Norway.
it's such a beautiful, welcoming country. You're a great reflection on you national and godly heritage, dear Maggie.

Dale

Thanks, but that's enough politics! The beauty of the body is our many parts and complimentary (not biblical gender reference), roles. You are loved even though you don't shovel your own walks. :-) If there is an "elephant" in the room, it might be brother Dale who loves your pancakes.

Jan Carlberg

Something's been amiss with my connection to Wordpress and this blog. So I haven't responded to your comment and haven't done another
post until today. I'll get my son to take a look at it, or one of the Grands. Yes,it's easy to divide. Hard to unite.
Pancakes help. So glad you enjoyed those Norwegian pancakes. Come again. YOu and Marty are always welcome, my dear brother Dale.

Dale Lefever

Thanks for the grace. My tee shirts only say Jesus with a small smiley elephant in the corner. Actually, this allows me to vote for write-in candidates and ride comfortably into the Boston area. Love, a justified and slowly sanctified Republican. Dale

Jan Carlberg

You are one of the funniest people I know. God gave you a double dose of humor. You are always welcome here, no matter what T-shirt you wear, or the size of the elephant you bring along for comfort or shock value! Stay teachable. Remember, Jesus chose a donkey, not an elephant, to transport him through the crowds on Palm Sunday.

Alyssa Arnold

From the comic touches to the cardamom, thanks for your take on the spice of life, Jan- it brought a smile to my face and hunger to my belly.

Jan Carlberg

Happy to add some smiles to you day, dear Alyssa. Cardamom has a way of making me sniff and smile. I love the Christmas photo you sent of you, Andrew and your preious
baby. Blessings on you three this day.

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