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TIME TO SING SOME THANK YOU NOTES

Happy Thanksgiving to all y'all.

Well, the very fact that I'm writing this when I'd normally be cooking or eating tells you something different is going on. Yup. A few days ago a nasty cold caught up with me. Tested: no COVID nor the other two kinds of flu bugs on the test guage. So that's something I'm thankful for today. But I couldn't get up the energy to shop, cook, bake while trying to fight this bug. So, in a couple of hours, Maggie's picking me up and taking me to their home for Thanksgiving dinner.

Times change. Maggie drives now and I go along for the ride. Poco called yesterday to ask me for recipes so she could copy Thanksgiving dinner at my house. She said, "Momo, it's my favorite meal every year!" Well, it's hard to hand over recipes that are only in my head. Did you ever try to describe making gravy to a Grand? It's more work than making the gravy. But it reminded me to ask myself, "What am I not passing along that really matters?"

Well, Maggie called to report that the turkey took longer to thaw than anticipated, so we'll eat a little later. But that's better than the time Mama baked the turkey with all the giblets still giftwrapped inside the cavity of the turkey. Daddy discovered it at carving time. Or the time I was so nervous I'd overcook the bird, it was lethally undercooked. So while vegetables waited with the cranberry sauce, the turkey stayed in the oven until that little gizmo popped up. But just to be sure I shoved it back into the oven. Better to serve dry than raw turkey. After fifty plus years of baking turkeys, I've finally mastered the timing. Like a lot of life, just when you catch on, it's time for someone else to take over.

But, if all we do today is talk turkey, we've missed the true focus of the day. It's neither food nor football, though I like both a lot. Nor is it getting a jump on Black Friday sales. It's about giving thanks. And that's a lot harder for some, than making gravy. It ranks right up there with being told to sit down and write a thank you note to someone. And sometimes it was for something you really didn't want but, Mama said, "Write!" So I wrote.

Then again, many of the Psalms are thank you notes. They are praise songs to God, thank you notes sent to the God "from whom all blessings flow." And speaking of songs, even though I felt too sick to go, I know they sang Now thank we all our God, last Sunday at church. I especially love that hymn, now that I know the story behind it. You can Google it, or keep reading.

This hymn was written by a Lutheran minister, Martin Rinkart, in Eilenberg, Germany around 1637. This was when the thrifty Years War was devastating Europe, but especially Germany. In that country they were also experiencing a famine and a plague. Remember what it was like during the recent pandemic? Imagine these other disasters happening, as well. And no vaccines!

In various sources I read, it said that during 1637, the plague killed 8,000 people, including Rinkart's wife. He, alone, buried 4,480 during that year, 40-50 a day. Imagine the weight of so much sorrow. Yet two miracles,(my word, not from the sources) Rev.Rinkart never got sick. And the 2nd miracle, to me, is in the depths of his personal despair, he wrote NOW, Thank We All Our God. Yes, I wrote NOW in full caps on purpose. It's in the middle of life's muddles, not when we finally see a way out, we are to give thanks. Why? It's easy to lose ourselves in what's happening and forget that God is with us. God didn't cause it. But God can make something good come from it. Like this hymn, that is second only to Martin Luther's, A Mighty Fortress is Our God, among favorite hymns in Germany.

And with this context, NOW picture the following Thanksgiving scene in 1637. Martin Rinkart, somehow found time and thankfulness to write this hymn, but not for the church. He wrote it for his two young motherless children. They sang it before meal time and at bed time. Eventually it found its way into the hymnal.

With that in mind, I hope you'll hunt the lyrics, then tell the story to your family and friends at some time when you're together. Then sing the hymn with great gratitude. We have so much for which to give thanks to God. And to and for each other. The Apostle Paul had plenty to be unthankful for. But he and Silas sang thank you notes in prison to God. And in 1Thessalonians 5:18 urged us who choose to follow Jesus, to do the tough stuff, like Martin Rinkhart did. "Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus."

So, lets rejoice and sing some thank you notes to God. I'll start us off, but I won't sing. I might get coughing, barking like a seal. I don't want to spread anything but goodwill.

Now thank we all our God with heart and hands and voices

Who wondrous things hath done, in whom his world rejoices

Who from our Mother's arms hath blessed us on our way

With countless gifts of love and still is ours today.

For sure, there is so much more I hope to pass on to my Grands, than how to make gravy for Thanksgiving dinner.

You, too?

12 Comments

Rita Smith Dove

Amen! Thanking God on one of the most difficult Thanksgivings I’ve had. Appreciate you focusing me on Him and His loving, sustaining care, Jan.
Prayers for healing of that cold that caught you.

Jan Carlberg

Very dear Rita, you've been on my mind a lot these past two days. I'm so grateful to hear from you. This was a hard Thanksgiving for me, too. And not just because of the cold. There's so much happening in our world and our country, as well as in families, to divide us and heighten our fears. So like Joshua, we march, sing and pray for the walls to come down. And until they do, we sing on anyhow. James and Jud are singing, I'm sure. And praying for us to be faithful to the finish line.

Jeri

Beautiful history lesson of this popular hymn, Jan. I had not heard this story before. So powerful! I had to look up the full lyrics to remind myself, and now with a deeper context. Sharing it on my Facebook page as a reminder to friends and family. Hoping you feel better soon. Thanking you for your wise words once again!

Jan Carlberg

Thanks, dear Jeri. Feel free to share this story of the hymn so full of gratitude to God from a young pastor and dad. No matter how many times I proof read, something goes awry. Like I just noticed "thrifty Years War', instead of THIRTY Years War. Well, I hope most readers know there is nothing thrifty about war. So grateful for you and Ron.

Valerie McCoy

Jan, this is one of your best!
While Peter and I celebrated Thanksgiving with antibiotics and prednisone we still put aside this nasty covid to find joy in having Thanksgiving Turkey Pie and a whole lotta praise to 'thank we all our God"

Jan Carlberg

Good for you and Peter, dear Valerie. You have a wonderful voice that blesses the ears of those who hear you sing your thank you notes to God. Happy healing!

Maggie Wallem Rowe

Jan, while you pass along both recipes and life lessons to your grands, I'm thankful for the latter that you share with your readers as well. I've always emphasized the importance of writing thank you notes to our kids (our mantra was: "You don't spend it, eat it, play with it or wear it until you've thanked for it!" , which unfortunately led to some very long delays in using gifts when they got older.) That said, as much as I love the psalms, I have never thought of them as thank you "notes" to God. I love the double meaning there! Every year I flounder trying to find a fresh way to write about gratitude, and now I know what I can share in November of 2025 - what I just learned from you! Time for a thank you note or even a full chorus from me to you. You're on my Grateful list!

Jan Carlberg

Tusen Takk to you, Maggie, my dear Norwegian friend. This was God's gift to me for paying attention. I was reading a Psalm the morning I wrote the blog and thought that while I knew this was a praise song to God, it suddenly hit me that praise songs are full of thank you notes. And not the kind I was forced to write. Well, I got so excited to communicate that to others on Thanksgiving Day 2024. I love the unique ways God shows up. I'm no longer surprised, however, that often God comes through words you write, dear Maggie.

Wendy

I'm so sorry you were so sick! But thankful you could still be with family, even if you couldn't prepare it. How special the relationship you have with your grands is - I know it's not by accident, but very intentional. Good for you.
What a beautiful post Jan! I also had not heard the background of this hymn, but Steve and I just pulled it up on YouTube with a full orchestra and choir singing, with the lyrics on another tab. You can imagine Steve sang it out loudly! I couldn't get past the words "who from our mothers' arms..." because I was so emotional thinking about this young pastor writing it for, and singing it with his motherless children. Wow! So powerful.
I read a post by Ann Voskamp - are you familiar with her? She has written many books, the one I'm most familiar with is "Ten Thousand Gifts." I was so touched I wrote these portions of it in my phone: (the backstory is when she was a teen she was so broken she turned to cutting to try and release the inner pain. During that season she came upon the word Eucharisteo = Thankfulness)
From Anne Voskamp‘s Instagram November 2024
“Thanksgiving can be more than only one of our favorite holidays. giving things can be our favorite way of living all of our days.
When all can be taken as grace so that thanksgiving can be expressed - Joy can always, always, always be experienced.
All the trauma within began to be awed by all the grace of God around, and I began to see too: deep grief is also an expression of deep gratitude… gratitude, for all that was, and all that is deeply missed. Just as grace saturates everything, so gratitude can saturate everything, even the grief.
The giver, God, gives all of himself to sustain, strengthen, hold, heal, and save all of ourselves.“
Sorry for the long reply! :) Love you!

Jan Carlberg

Very dear Wendy, never be sorry for a lengthy reply. It adds to the blog. Yes, I love Ann Voskamp and have that book, as well. It is deeply moving to know the stories behind the hymns we sing. Love picturing Steve singing away! We all have so much for which to be grateful. And I know you and Steve are wonderful grandparents.

dale lefever

Great timing. I promise not to sing as I was made the choir manager for a reason. Today, I will be watching our pastor defend his doctoral dissertation on gratitude. I have worked with this word and believe it transcends thankfulness as joy does happiness. The important idea is that thankfulness often relates to a gift given and thankfulness extending. Gratitude, however, focuses on the person who gives the gift such as I am grateful for you and thankful for what you do. Just a thought and I will learn more in a few hours. Blessings Jan, Dale

Jan Carlberg

Well, you've done it again, my dear friend Dale. You've made the blog better. I never thought about the distinction being grateful versus thankfuful. Both words need to be spoken or written more often, however. And, as I've spoken and written before, I'm so grateful for you and Marty and our very long friendship.

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