Seasons & Holidays

What Happened to Putting On Our Sunday Best?

Maybe the better question is, "When did Sunday become more like another Saturday? As we approach the beginning of Holy Week, many will shop for Easter outfits. Some folks will make reservations for Easter Brunch. And some will make elaborate Easter baskets, dye eggs, plan an Easter egg hunt to get the kids running around outside the house. And some, under guilt or duress, will make an annual or biannual trek to church. But most will miss the heart of the season. God's love for us and what it cost to love us, for no earthly reason.

So, what about the use of Sunday and Sunday clothes? Well, it started when I read an article in the NYTimes(3/23/26) by two Ukrainian women, Alyona Synenko and Olga Engibarova, entitled, "To Dress Up Is To Live." In the article, they wrote about the older generation, despite the ongoing war, continue to dress up. "We dress to show not only who we are but who we want to be."

Wars rage in and around us, destabilizing more than stock markets. Too many of us teeter on the brink of despair. Hope needs a booster shot, or maybe a new Easter outfit. Low on funds? Well, consider this, God offers us a sacred swap in Isaiah 61:3, "...beauty for ashes, oil of joy for mourning and the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness." (NKJV))

In two days, the calendar states March 29 is Palm Sunday. Some will head to church, others to the mall, gym, or a sporting event. These represent ways Sunday has become more like another Saturday. It's become a me-day , or a day to get a jump start on Monday.

So what? What we choose to wear, come Sunday, often reflects our values. Palm Sunday marks the beginning of Holy Week. What difference that day and the coming week make has much to do with the question Jesus asked his disciples, " Who do you say I am?" (Matthew 16:13-16, NLT) It's not a trick question. God's enemy and ours wants to distract us from the heart of the matter. How? He shifts the focus from our hearts to the externals of the season, as fun, beautiful and delicious as they may be.

So, take a look at what the well-dressed follower or Jesus should be wearing, and not just on Sundays. Ephesians 6:11 reminds us, " Put on all of God's armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies and tricks of the Devil." That outfit includes wearing the shield of faith and the helmet of salvation. If a visible outfit, some would come wearing a helmet, instead of an Easter bonnet. Not a trend setter! That reminds me of something I read during the pandemic. "They said to wear a mask and gloves would be enough to go to the grocery store. They lied. Everyone else had clothes on!"

Well, Springtime and Easter remind us of two of God's great booster shots, JOY and HOPE. So, no matter what you wear, I hope you'll give Church, and especially Jesus, another look and listen to during Holy Week. Like one of the older men in Ukraine said, "We dress for a better world." While clothes may help keep up spirits, I believe Jesus, at work in and through us, is at the heart of a better world.

So fear not, dare to dress in your Sunday best and head to church on Palm Sunday "to show who we want to be." Hungry hearts and wigglers welcome. Helmets and Easter bonnets optional.

15 Comments

Maggie Wallem Rowe

Jan, I'm so thankful that your blog letters (maybe we can call them"b/etters"), now come directly into my inbox rather than taking every detour and offramp out there on the cyberhighway. To me, dressing up for Easter is a sign of intentionality and respect for our holiest of holy days. As I read your words, I started thinking about what I have that shows who I want to be - a fully devoted follower of Christ. Maybe I'll show up in my bunad! Thankful, as always, for my kindred spirit Norwegian friend.

Jan Carlberg

For sure a Norwegian bunad would get the attention of many. Then again, so could one of those Viking helmets! Your words spoken
and written, tell the story of Jesus and his love for you and this old hurting world. Thanks, my Norwegian sister.

Mark Taylor

Jan, your blogpost reminded me of the guy who went to church on Easter. After the service he said to the pastor, "Don't you ever change the flowers by the podium? Every time I come to church you have Easter lilies up there."

Jan Carlberg

Thanks for the laugh, dear Mark. They're hard to come by, some days. Praying for you, Carol and your family. So grateful for our
friendship and for the mission of Tyndale Publishing over many decades. Can't imagine my life without The Living Bible translation.

Sharon Wolgemuth

Thanks Jan for your thoughts on our hearts at Easter.

Jan Carlberg

Oh, dear Sharon, what a springtime surprise to hear from you. I see the name Wolgemuth and I'm back in Michigan, enjoying
times with you, Ken and your family. Thanks for taking the time to read and respond. It feels like a warm hug on a cold day,
and it's very chilly today in Gloucester.

Dale Lefever

My second try; not a better one, just another one. I loved your thought but I have a problem: I cannot watch the beatings and crucifixion without tears. The idea that our Lord went through this for me makes me angry and I want God to wipe out those soldiers! Of course I then realize my sins put Him
of the cross and I am sad again. I will try to be more joyful this Easter and focus on your words. Love, brother Dale

Jan Carlberg

Well, my dear brother Dale, you've gone to Good Friday ahead of me. I'm still inching towards Palm Sunday. But it doesn't take much for me
to leap ahead and weep over what Jesus endured for the likes of me. You, like I, have read the rest of the story, so we know there's Palm Sunday, then "It's Friday but Sunday's
Coming", as Tony Campolo reminded us in his most famous sermon. Meanwhile we watch and wait. But one day weeping will be no more. JOY
will be the overwhelming emotion, and gratitude. Sending early Easter JOY to you and Marty.

Mrs. Linda Moore

Amen!

Jan Carlberg

Thanks, Linda. It's always so good to hear from you, whether in Arizona or in New England. Sending an extra hug to Megan.

Toni Lovingood

Jan,
May you have a blessed Easter. I am enjoying "The Hungry Heart" so much for the second time. Love your old testament devotional.
Love,

Toni

Jan Carlberg

Thank you, dear Toni, for reading The Hungry Heart again. May you have a Joyful Easter. I'm sure
it will be warmer where you are, than up here. But JOY can show up in any weather. Thank God for that and a whole lot more.

Wendy

As I write this we're heading into our 10th of 10 Easter Presentations - "The Story of Jesus". I'm not sure of the exact numbers but over 20,000 have come to see and hear the Gospel story - and into the thousands have requested more information on knowing Jesus! I'm exhausted but so thankful to be able to be a small part in such a huge thing for eternity. Palm Sunday (was that only a week ago?!) we had 2 full dress rehearsals for all our volunteers and their families.
I loved your story about the Ukrainian women. Did you know my mom's parents were from Ukraine? When she came to America through Ellis Is they changed her name from Antonina Alexandrovna Fessenko to Nina Fess. I love her original name!
Thank you for your beautiful encouraging words dear Jan! Love you!

Jan Carlberg

What an amazing gift your church gives to all who come, seek and find the Jesus you love and serve. Or find encouragement to keep on seeking, or
keep on believing and trusting God to do the impossible in and through them. No, I didn't know your mom was Ukrainian. What a heritage! I love her
original name, as well. But I really love her daughter!

Wendy

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