I Heard You Yelling, "More Pictures!"
So here they come:
The Grands and I are on the steps of Husan, which is the Lund family home in Farsund, Norway. But it is now the Town Hall. My great, great grandmother, Amelia married into the Lund family. However, the photo is missing Maggie, who just turned 18 on 6/23). She and Kristina headed home early for work and camp, where Maggie is working as a counselor.
Lily lives and works in Brooklyn now, where my grandmother, Ella, first landed, lived and worked as a maid, at age 15. Luke, age 21 is seated on the back row. He's a junior at U. of California at Santa Cruz.
Cool looking Basil, is 15, and will be a Sophomore in HS next year. And Poco (aka Kate) is looking all of her 14 years and ready to enter Ipswich HS next fall.
As for me, I'm feeling so happy to be nestled among my Grands. Although , I look like I'm about to slide off the steps. Maybe that's why I'm holding onto Basil's leg. Or maybe he's shoving me from behind.

Well, one evening, we left the kids back at the farm house we rented in Andalsnes, Norway. What a place Heather found through Air B&B. Such a great way to experience travel as a family. We took a cable car to the top of Mount Nesaksla. It was quite an engineering feat to build and a treat to dine at Eggen perched atop God's handiwork, which abounds in Norway. Kristina and Heather are on the right. And Chad, Matt and I are on the left. We were celebrating Father's Day, on a day of our choosing, and being together. Some of us dined on sea trout. Delicious!! I love imagining Jud seated in the chair that appears to be empty.


Back at Husan in Farsund, we gathered around some relative. Chad, Heather and Lily are to the left. Poco is perched on her cousin Luke's shoulders. But we're all enjoying time together in Norway, rain, drizzle or shine. And we experienced all. However, looking at this reminds me I'm shrinking, while the rest are growing. That's life

Well, this is me in protective mode. Daring this troll to come near my grandchildren! Basil thought we shared a resemblance.
My tech support just went swimming so I'll end with these pictures, for now. A picture is worth a thousand words, or more. But,as I've said more than once, words matter. They create pictures, but also have the potential to do great harm or good.
The stories we tell about each other, the bits and pieces we try to puzzle together into something meaningful, matter. It will take awhile to sift through written, spoken and experienced words, for me. But for today, I'm singing, "When we all get to heaven, what a day of rejoicing that will be."
And it won't just be about seeing Jesus, as the song says. It will be about reuniting with those we knew on earth and connecting with those who were merely names from family lore, Ancestry.com or letters. And I believe that Grace, will continue mending and stitching us together, filling in the missing pieces to create something beautiful. It is, as the old song says, "Grace, grace God's grace, grace that still pardons and cleanses within." And, for sure, it is "greater than all our sins."
So , as I write, I'm reminded of my heritage, and the grace and mercy I've received. And that nudges me to keep on forgiving, being grateful, finding ways to stay at the table with those with whom I disagree, and being willing to add more chairs to welcome those back who left for awhile, for God mostly knows why.
Meanwhile, it's a choice to feast on gratitude for what was and is, to hope for what will be, and to trust Jesus to help us to love always.
And, every now and then to exclaim, as my Grands often hear me doing, "Don't we have it good!"
And we do.
For me, that's the look and work of grace; oiling rusty hinges, healing rifts, making something new possible moment by moment.
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Oh these are wonderful pictures! So thankful for this priceless opportunity for you and your family - I just wish Jud were with you (but I guess he is in many ways!) And the words are quite good too. <3
Well, dear Wendy, I sense, often, Jud's nearby and, for sure, praying for us. It's been such a meaningful tie together in Norway. I hope to return again, but , if not, I'll be content. As my Mama said when I told her how much I wanted to take her to England, which was on her wish list., " Well, I'm not disappointed. One day I'll take a tour with the One who made it all. Won't that be something!"
Such a beautiful tribute to your family! And to you, full of grace, who holds them all together with your ever living/loving, joyous smile.
Oh, dear Radina, it's been hard for me not to smile. So much to enjoy with three generations spending so much time together in Norway. Today, however, I write from Messery, France, on the French side of Lake Geneva. It is so beautiful. And HOT! We are in a place from which Matt's mother's family came. Blessings abound!
Jan, I am soaking up every word about Norway and, of course, the photos of you with your grandchildren are just the best. You also had me at this paragraph about adding more chairs to the table. Such beautiful imagery. Thank you friend.
My dear Norwegian sister-friend, it was hard to leave Norway, but it helped that I was flying on to Geneva to spend time with Matt's family. There's a wonderful story behind the place where generations of his family have gathered during summer months on Lake Geneva. In both Norway and here, in Messery, France, I am so aware of God's faithfulness and our choices As we trace family roots, there remains a faithful remnant, throughout generations, who, no matter what, continued to follow Jesus.
Smiling from ear to ear, dear Jan! I know how full of joy and thankfulness your heart is with your loved ones. Jud had a place at the table— as he does in all the hearts of us who knew him on this side of heaven. You two will always be one, that’s how God planned it.
Thrilling pictures! No place on earth can compare to Norge! I love you my sister. ♥️♥️ Evie
Oh, what a birthday gift to see your name show up on this blog, my dear Norwegian sister, Evie. It's the 6th time I've been to Norway and each time, it's hard to leave. What a country! The strawberries are in season and the best I've ever eaten. I'm overwhelmed with gratitude for my Norwegian grandmother, Ella, for her faith and choices to forgive some very hard things. As a result, she passed on an inheritance/heritage, far greater than money and the "tings" of this world. I send love to you and your family, dear Evie. Sing on!
Taks a myka Jan for this Scandinavian treat to learn about your Norwegian family roots.
I love the joy I hear and see when you speak of your family and especially the Grands!
I too have Grands, three in total so far and I count them all my greatest blessing.
Thank you for weaving in love and grace into your writings and holding fast to your values that we need to seek connection and understanding in the face of disagreement. Our world is too polarized to remain intrenched. Thank you for inviting us along on your family time!
Tina Hoofnagle a Swedish fan.
Thank you, dear Tina. I'm grateful for you, my" Swedish fan." After all, I married a Swede! Yes, we need more grace, less griping and grousing with or about each other. Happy 4th of July to you and your family.