Remembering Who, What and Why
Two days ago we remembered mothers, ours and others. It's good to remember but not always easy. We're a hodgepodge of memories and mixed emotions. We're like a bookshelf laden with words, bound by time and memories. Stacks of words, some better left unsaid or written, along with others we wish we'd said or written before it was too late.
So, last Sunday I taught Adult Sunday School. My theme was about remembering, and not just mothers. The word remember, according to one source, appears 352 in the Bible. For example, "Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy." (Exodus 20:8) And in the New Testament, the thief on the cross uses some of the last breath in his broken body to croak, "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom." (Luke 23:42)
And then there is the unimaginable promise from Jesus, that when we confess our sins, "I will forgive their wickedness, and I will never again remember their sins." (Hebrews 8:12, NLT) It's not that God's old and forgetful. It's God's choice to see us as forgiven. However, we don't forget so easily the good or the bad. When we least expect it, a memory shows up and sends us laughing or weeping. Sometimes puzzling over how something could have happened and how to mend it.
Well, like someone shared in Sunday School, Jesus knows we need forgiveness and healing. So Sundays we are given the opportunity to come forward to receive forgiveness and the Eucharist. Jesus says when we eat the bread and drink the cup to remember. What are we to remember? Jesus and what he did for us and why. And we're to remember who we need to be reconciled with or our need of forgiveness.
What we remember matters. The children of Israel swallowed manna and grumbled about their boring, though heaven-sent, daily diet. "We remember the fish we ate in Egypt free of charge; the cucumbers, melons, leeks, onions, and garlic." ((Numbers 11:15) Gotta admit that sounds a lot more tasty than manna. But it shows how sometimes our cravings distort reality. It's the "free of charge" part. They were slaves in Egypt. It's a challenge to someone my age to resist "the good old days" over what really was and appreciate what is good about today.
So, what are we to remember on this 13th day of May? Tonight when you crawl into bed, I suggest you and I do what Jud did during some of the darkest times in his life and ours. Jud chose to remember God. "On my bed I remember you; I think of you through the watches of the night. Because you are my help, I sing in the shadow of your wings."" (Psalm 63:6-7, NIV) And, though neither Jud nor I kept our neighbors awake with our bedtime singing, Fernando Ortego helped our spirits sing along as we recalled God's faithfulness, mercy, presence, love and grace.
Well, it's time to wrap this up. You and I have other matters to tend to. But while we go about living life, remember, we are not alone, unloved or forgotten. Jesus said, "I know my sheep and I call them by name."(John 10:3) Not, "Hey, ewe over there!" Rather, "come along Mark, Beth, Kali, John, Chris." Jesus loves, knows, remembers us. Imagine that!
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So beautifully written Jan. ❤️
Toni
Thank you, dear Toni, and for the heart, my favorite motif!
I remember many things I would like to forget, and you know what they are. Most of all, I REMEMBER the best room mate that God blessed me with when I was in college.
Oh dear Evie, I REMEMBER YOU were my very dear roommate in college.. It always does my heart good to hear from you. We all carry memories that are hard to forget. Sometimes they come like firey darts from the evil one(Ephesians 6:16) or like sticky thoughts that are hard to shake loose. It's then I pray and offer them to God and recall Paul's words, "Forgetting what's past, I press on." (Philippians 3:13-14) The Apostle Paul had a lot to regret, so it was an ongoing battle of faith to keep forgetting and pressing on. Sleep well tonight, dear Evie Jesus is keeping watch.
Thank you for this, Jan. The older I become, the more I want to take time to remember God‘s faithfulness in my life, as well as the many experiences I never thought to have. But mostly, I want to remember people. As you know, I just attended my 50th college reunion, and it was wonderful to share memories from a half century ago with those who were in my life then. Grateful for your words that call us to remembering.
So happy you could go back to Wheaton to celebrate your 50th, dear Maggie. How can that be!!? Jud and I made it to our 50th in 2012. He was doing well then, before another bout hit again. So grateful to remember that time with friends and classmates. Moments matter.
On my bed I remember you...I sing in the shadow of your wings - this Psalm will bring me comfort as Andrew and I are up all night tending our newborn baby. Thank you for the reminder to remember, Jan.
Oh, what wonderful news!! I'm so thrilled for you and Andrew. Your baby will be so blessed to have you for parents and to have Norwegian grandparents close by. Congratulations, dear Alyssa! Gaining a baby is worth losing some sleep. It doesn't last. Soon you'll have trouble waking them up to get them off to school on time.
How does anyone get through the hard times in life without remembering Jesus?! I have actually been remembering Jud, and you, often lately as I have 2 friends in the awful throes of fighting advanced cancer. I'm so sad and brokenhearted you had to go through that, and I wish with all my heart that Jud was still with us, but then I chose to remember Jesus. I know He loves you and Jud, and my friends, more than I can even begin to imagine. I trust Him with you all, and I pray so much for His comfort, grace, peace, love and joy for each of you.
So true, dear Wendy, I cannot imagine my life without Jesus, as well as the company of family and friends. Through the toughest times, Jud and I sensed the love and prayers of many. And the good ocmpany of Jesus. Peace and joy to and through you and Steve.
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